Girls tend to be the victim more often. Like my dad said once when telling me why I can walk around the town by myself and my sister can't "You never hear of a guy being raped by a girl." I just feel really sorry for all the very sweet girls out there who have had rough lives, who are depressed. Then they think that they deserve it, but they certainly do not. Almost all of the depressed people I have talked to are the most caring and nice people. It actually makes MY day better to talk to them, and cheer them up.

I can't imagine a world without girls, well I can, but I don't want to, lol. They need more holding than guys, they need more support. Now, there are some guys who need a lot of support and caring, but most guys are "tough". A lot of guys are not caring, they think of their girlfriend as someone whom they can tell what to do and do anything to them, and they are supposed to obey and stay with him. A lot of guys flirt to get a girl to like him, but once she's his baby, he stops flirting because he already has her. As for me, I flirt to make someone feel better, cheer them up. It usually works. So if I had a girlfriend, I would probably flirt with her more. Even married I would still flirt a lot.

I really, really am grateful for the girl friends that I have. They are the biggest reason for instant messenger. Whenever I am down they pull me up. They give hugs, girls love hugs, as do I. They are so fun to cheer up. I feel so bad when they cry though, which happens much too often. I wish I could go to every girl when they are crying and give them a great, big hug. I like holding a lot, too, although I've never been so lucky as to have the chance to do it. I just know I would love it. But, one of the best feelings, maybe even the single best feeling I've ever had, is when someone (always a girl) is feeling down in the dumps and says that no one can cheer them up. And good luck to me, they are really depressed. So I start my magic, lol, and soon they put a smiley face on or says :grins: and is laughing about things in no time. But what I love doing is keeping up the cheering up process as though they were still really sad and it just makes them happy that much more. Then they often say things like "You always cheer me up. Whenever I'm down you always manage to make me smile or laugh." Or even better, sometimes it's "When I'm down, sometimes just starting to talk to you makes me feel better. Thank you so much for always making my day better." Yep, that's probably the best feeling I've experienced so far, until I get a girlfriend, a real one. One that will last, one that we can grow old together. That's what I want most, someone like that. Someone I can cheer up all the time because I will be able get to her right away. That's what I dream of most of the time. When I daydream or fantasize about things, I don't fantasize about having sex with some hot chick. I often dream of holding someone in my arms and them telling me how they feel so safe in my arms and that I make them feel so good inside. That no one's ever treated them like this before, I'm the only one they could feel like this with.

I want someone who will wake me up with a kiss, who would rather fall asleep in my arms on the couch watching a movie than alone in her bed. Someone who runs up and hugs me when I've been away, someone to watch the stars with, as well as the sunset and sunrise. I want a girl with a short skirt and a looooooooong jacket, lol, just kidding. I want someone I can snuggle with when I'm tired, or sore, or sad, or just for no reason. Someone who automatically turns to me when she needs a shoulder to cry on, when she needs a good friend. A real friend. A best friend. I want someone who would just look into my eyes and that would be enough for the moment. BUT! Could that ever happen if there were no girls? No, and I can tell you this right up front. I would never do that with a guy, lol. So, thank you, girls. You really make the world a much better place. :) ;) =^P