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What is with
me? |
8/1/2002 |
I don't really know what's wrong with me. Just at
certain times, not very often mind you, I feel like crying. This has
only happened 3 times in my life that I can remember, but all
happened this year. Now, I don't mean when I was younger and cried
about petty things, but where I just had the urge to cry. I've had
the urge to cry more than 3 times, but I knew what had caused it.
These 3 I will talk about are inexplicable to me. I don't understand
why I felt so, and I can't really find any likeness between them,
besides them involving a girl, but somehow I know there is a
connection, I just can't find it. I haven't really thought about it
until it happened this last time and someone asked me to explain and
I realized I couldn't give a reason, and it's been on my mind ever
since.
The first time was at Kelli's house. We were on her computer and
she got on my AIM screen name and talked to Becky. She learned from
her how I had told her things that Kelli definitely didn't want me
telling people about. I was a complete idiot. Anyway, after we got
off the computer and we were both in her room, I asked what
"punishment" she would give me, since I felt really bad about what I
did, and I figured I should make it up to her, or at least having
something unpleasant done to me also. She told me I can't be in her
room the whole day, and I would have to watch all 3 of the "Scream"
movies. I was already planning on watching them sometime with her,
so I didn't see that as a very big punishment, and the
staying-out-of-her-room part could only cause a little
disappointment, unless she stayed in there a lot. I promptly left
her room and went downstairs for the movie. I sat on the floor at
the foot of the couch and put my head down. The feeling had started.
I felt a little tight inside, the feelings that lead to tears. I was
thinking about what I had done. The punishment itself was nothing. I
had betrayed her, just like the other people in her life. She didn't
deserve that, she had never done anything to me. She was always a
good friend. But, thinking about something else didn't make the
feeling lessen, and thinking about what I had done to her didn't
make it grow. It stayed the same regardless. Then she came down and
saw me, and sat on the couch directly behind me. I guess she
wondered what was wrong, or she knew what was and didn't want me to
be sad. Whatever the reason, she started rubbing my shoulders and
head. You would think that would make me feel better, wouldn't you?
I sure would think that would make me feel a little better, but
right when she started caressing me, the urge to cry doubled. I
wondered if I would cry right then and there. I didn't, though, but I
was pretty darn close. But why had this made me feel like crying
even more? This showed she wasn't too mad at me to do this. This was
a good thing, so why did it make me feel like crying a lot more? She
got the movie started and I went and layed on the floor with the
pillow and blanket. She laid behind me. The movie started and the
feeling gradually went away as I got into the movie, but then she
paused it because her dad was in the other room and talking to her.
The feeling came back, though the thought about me telling Becky
Kelli's secrets or what I had done hadn't even crossed my mind. The
feeling just seemed to return on it's own. I actually thought I was
going to cry right then, and a few tears left my eyes, but I think
the thought of crying in front of her dad stopped me. He was kind of
behind us. He left and I looked at her, but couldn't tell if she
noticed my eyes or not. We continued the movie and the feeling
passed.
The second time it happened was also at her house. We were both
laying on her bed on our backs and looking at the ceiling. I was
quoting a scene in "Monty Python and the Holy Grail" to her since
she hadn't seen it. Her mom came in and told us we couldn't be in
her room on the bed, and for me to get out. I went downstairs and
confirmed with her mom that I couldn't be in her room. She said I
was right, I can't be in there. The next day when I was there alone,
since everyone was at either work or school, Kelli came home. She
always gets home first. She went into her room and I went in there,
too, and laid on her bed with her. After a short time, I thought I
heard a sound downstairs and thought it might be her mom coming
home. I went out of her room and checked. No one was there. I didn't
want to chance it, so I stayed out of her room the rest of the time,
but told her it was because I was afraid her mom would come home
without me knowing and I didn't want to disobey her and be sent
home. She said alright, and stayed in there. Great, I waited all day
for her to come home and she goes in her room where I can't go. I
could go on the computer, watch TV, draw, or anything else, but
nothing sounded good, except sitting outside her door until she came
out. I sat there a long time, and the urge to cry came again, though
not as strong. I just sat waiting for her to finish what she was
doing and come out, but I didn't want to bug her by asking when she
was going to be done. She finally came out, but I didn't look at her
or say anything. This is what I don't understand. Why didn't I feel
any better that she came out? The thing that I was waiting for
finally happened, so why didn't I feel any different? She stayed
there a little bit with my back to her. Then she went downstairs,
and I can't seem to understand why I didn't want to go with her. Why
did I want to stay there outside her room? She was out now, I could
be with her, so why did I feel the same and stay there as if I was
still waiting for her to come out? She soon came back upstairs and
went into her room again and shut the door. Then the feeling to cry
increased. Again, I don't know why. I can't think of what it could
be. If I was sad that she was in her room where I couldn't be, then
why hadn't I felt even a shred better when she came out? There must
be some reason, and I know in my heart the 2 occurences are related,
but I can't figure out how... |
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