Well, neither Melissa nor Carly had said anything to
me today. I'll skip to the end of the day since nothing special
happened during the day.
I had been thinking of how to approach Carly, like if I should
throw on her everything I knew and make her answer for ignoring me
and not telling me why she was doing it and then going and telling
her friends stuff about me that wasn't true. Or should I act as if I
don't know anything and only know that she's giving me the cold
shoulder and ask her why she is? When it was time for my last break,
I got on the phone and called her house since she had already gone
home. It was out of my character to do something that fast about it.
I'm really shy when it comes to confronting people about things. But
this is how it went:
Her: Hello?
Me: Hi, this is Jason.
Her: Hi.
Me: Listen,
I don't want this to turn into another
not-talking-to-each-other-for-2-months thing, so what's up?
Her:
Nothing.
Me: Well, you've been giving me the cold
shoulder.
Her: I'm really busy. I have to go.
Me:
Okay...
click
Well, it didn't go as well as it did when I thought it out in my
head. I probably just made it a lot worse, like I always end up
doing to a problem. I decided I would just wait until there was a
good opportunity and first see if she would just listen to what I
had to say. I can wait. I just hope it doesn't take 2 months.
Anyway, this lady of about 50 had lost her key to her car and was
looking for it. From then on, I saw her searching the parking lot
for it, since it had fallen off her keychain. She and the 2 kids
with her (probably her grandkids) were able to stay out of the rain
since the kids forgot to lock the car, but she couldn't start it
without the key, obviously. The whole time I was thinking that I have
to finish the carts so I can clock out and help her look for it.
There was no way I was going to let them stay there all night. When
I finally did finish the carts and clocked out, I went out and she
was sitting in her car. I told her that I was sorry it took so long
but I couldn't be looking for her key on the clock. She said it was
alright and she didn't expect me to look for it anyway. Well, I'm
tired of things I try to help people with always backfiring and
making it worse and/or making them mad at me for interfering and I
knew that I couldn't possibly make this situation worse unless I
accidently kicked her key into a grate or something, lol. I'd
probably do something like that, though. But she didn't want to look
for her key anymore and I figured she probably had already looked
all the places I would look, so I just offered her a ride. She said
her sister in Junction City (hehe, that's where I live) was coming
to get her, but she appreciates the offer. So, since I couldn't do
anything else, I stayed there and talked to her about stuff until
her sister came. At least I felt good about that. I could go home
with something to affect my mood besides work and people avoiding
me. The rain felt good, too, since it's been hot lately.